Sunday, 13 November 2011

100 Ways to Improve the Quality of a relationship

So, I dont even know what to say today. Just feeling on a downer. HOWEVER, I did have a few drinks last night and they always say the next day you feel a little bit more depressed then usual because alchohol is a depressant. I just miss him like crazy.. 

Numero Trois:

3) Go to the arcade

I dont care who you are, how old you are, how tough you are. Everyone loves going to the arcade. Win some tickets to get a prize for your hunny. Make a date out of it and just laugh and have fun together..

Saturday, 12 November 2011

100 Ways to Improve the Quality of a relationship

So today was a good day. Really making progress with the ex. Really happy about that, I feel like it will happen sooner then I think. Also ended up finding a new place in a really gorgeous house with an awesome roommate. On cloud right about now! So its time for my daily update and number two of the list.

2) Go to the beach and make sandcastles!

See, it sounds so small and trivial. But you know what? I had a million chances to do it and never did. I dont know if its a timing thing or just the last thing we think about. But once we got a day off out of our busy schedules all we could muster up the energy for was a movie day. I mean, those are nice dont get me wrong, but when the weathers gorgeous what are you doing inside. Going to the beach not only gives you time to relax and get some sun, but also brings back memories of being a kid and being so excited to go!. I know.. im big for the reliving of your childhood with your significant other, but it seems to always put everyone in a great mood being able to relive those memories.

To make it even better go get yourself a freezie or popsicle, sit and tell stories of what you remember as a kid. Always a good bonding experience.

Friday, 11 November 2011

100 Ways to Improve the Quality of a relationship

So I am no relationship expert over here but I am going through a trying time at the moment. I lost the love of my life. I know, heartbreaking eh? Fortunately for me, I still have a chance (or so I hope) if I dont keep blowing it royally like I have been lately. Its just so much pressure, how do you make someone you love fall for you over again? I am probably coming off a little pathetic here. It was my screw up in the first place. I broke up with him (not because I stopped loving him but because of the fighting) heard a rumour and believed it then ended up breaking his trust. So normally, I would never ever go this far to woo over a guy, but hes my one and I screwed up and need to make it right. So one night when I was hanging out with him I looked him in the eyes and said the cheesiest thing I could even think of. Something so small that you would never even think it was significant and that inspired me to write all the little things I would have loved to do that would have made us have so much fun and accomplish stuff we always wanted to do and fingers crossed we can one day do them. So everyday Im going to post a new one. I would love feedback on if you think its true, fun, rediculous, or stupid. All comments appreciated.

So number 1 of 100 ways to improve qualities of a relationship:

1) Go to the Sugar Bush!

As a kid I always remember going to the sugar bush as one of our class trips. You walk through the woods, get to learn about how its done, but best of all, you got the big thing of snow where you get maple poured on it and you roll it up with a popsicle stick! Brings back plenty of great memories. Being able to share a childhood memory and be goofy and silly while your at it, will always put you in a good mood!